Children Accidentally See Parents Having Intimacy, Here's How to Deal with It

Father and Mother, have you ever imagined when you were having sex, suddenly your little one came into the room and saw the situation? Wow, just imagining it makes you panic, doesn't it? However, if it really happened, how should I deal with it?

Although it sounds embarrassing, but it's not impossible you know, Mom and Dad forgot to lock the bedroom door during sex, then your little one catches the situation.

Situations like this can happen, for example if your little one wants to be pampered or wants to ask for something, so he goes straight to Mom and Dad's room without calling or knocking. door first. If it happens, calm down first, Father, Mother, because there are how ways that can be done to deal with it.

How to Deal with When Children See Parents Having Sex

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Well, below are some ways you can do to deal with your little one who accidentally saw Mom and Dad having sex:

1. Stay calm

Even though it can make you startle and panic, but if your child accidentally catches Mom and Dad having sex, first act as normal as possible, okay? Then, if the child is too young to understand the situation, ask him what he needs, for example by saying "what do you want?" or "what do you want?" and wait for his reaction.

However, if your child is old enough to understand, try to let him know that Mom and Dad are needing time alone, and ask the child to get out of the room first. Also say that Mom or Dad will be following him soon.

2. Ask your child

When you are calmer, you need to ask your child hereabout the situation he saw before.

Ask questions to the Little One in the simplest possible sentence yes, Dad, Bun. For example, "What did you see when you entered Mom and Dad's room? or "what are you thinking right now?".

Although it may be embarrassing, but this is very important to do, so that Mom and Dad know how far your little one understands the situation and also knows what information is needed. should be given to children.

3. Give understanding to children

After being asked a question, each child may give a different answer, depending on their age and knowledge. Therefore, Father and Mother need to give understanding to the Little One according to the age and the answer he gives, yes.

For example, a child who is still very small will most likely only give an answer based on what he sees for example, "I saw Mom and Dad not wearing clothes" or "I saw Mom and Dad hugging".

If so, this means that the Little One's understanding of what he sees is still very far from the concept of sexual relations. . Therefore, it is enough for Father and Mother to give answers that are in accordance with their understanding.

On the other hand, if the child is old enough, he may have begun to understand what he saw. This is usually also marked by a change in his attitude.

If so, take an approach and give understanding to the child, that what he previously saw was the activity of a married adult and he will understand when he grows up.

However, sometimes there are also you knowchildren who think that the sexual activity they see is an act of violence by their parents.

So, if the Little One looks worried or gives a statement like "I see Mom and Dad fighting", then apologize to the child for making him confused or scared.

Then, explain also that Mom and Dad are not fighting and things what he saw was nothing to worry about. If necessary, also give a warm hug to your little one to calm him down.

Tips to Prevent Children from Catching Parents Having Sex

To prevent children from catching Mom and Dad having sex Make sure the child is really sleeping soundly in his room before Mom and Dad have sex.

Make sure the door to Mom and Dad's room is locked tightly before sexual activity begins.

Avoid being too loud during sex, so that Mom and Dad are still sensitive to the surrounding conditions.

Turn on music, radio or TV to help drown out the sound.

Teach your child to respect the privacy of others, for example by calling or knocking on the door before entering other people's rooms, including Mom's and Dad's.

Well, by applying these tips, it is hoped that The incident that a child caught while having sex will not happen or repeat itself, Father, Mother. If this has happened, Father and Mother also don't need to be awkward and protracted in guilt.

However, if Father and Mother are still worried about the condition of the Little One after seeing Mom and Dad having sex, don't hesitate to consult with a psychologist regarding this, yes.

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